EXCLUSIVE: Passias’ Mistress Took 30K

NEW YORK – Ethel Bouzalas, the woman identified as the mistress of Fr. George Passias according to various sources, including a videotape of their affair, and which resulted in the Archdiocese banning Passias, who was the priest at the St. Spyridon Church in the Upper Manhattan neighborhood of Washington Heights, from pastoral duties, took $30,000 from the parish before she left, according to documents obtained by The National Herald.

Bishop Andonios of Phasiane, the Archdiocesan Chancellor, emailed Bouzalas urging her to return the money or else the parish will report her to the police.

“On Thursday evening [Oct. 8],” Bishop Andonios wrote, “I had the opportunity to meet with the members of the Parish Council and was informed that you voluntarily told [Parish Council President] Steve [Papadatos] that you took $30,000 in cash, which you felt you were entitled to since it represented funds which you and your husband had given the School to cover expenses.

“Ethel, if indeed these funds were ‘lent’ to the School, then I will be the first to pressure the community to repay you, but before doing so, I need to ask that some backup documentation please be presented. Otherwise, there are those who will accuse you of stealing these funds, which will only compound what has already appeared in the press.

Clearly, this was not your intent since of your own volition you shared that you had taken the monies. Moreover, in my office you stated that of all the accusations (including misuse of funds) that had been made, only the one about your relationship with Father [Passias] was true.”

Andonios also wrote that “I am sure you appreciate that the Parish Council has a fiduciary responsibility and unless this issue is resolved, they will have no option other than to report it to the authorities. Let’s please try to resolve this amicably and before it goes any further.”

Andonios also recommended that Bouzalas seek help and offered the Archdiocese to assume the cost: “We would urge you to seek immediate professional help and, if you wish, we can assist you with locating a counselor and covering the cost. We also strongly encourage you to seek spiritual counseling and are here to help with that as soon as you are ready. In the meanwhile, I will keep you in my prayers.

May our loving Lord bless and lift you up during this most difficult time in your life.”

Papadatos told TNH last week that there are no financial improprieties at St. Spyridon. Bouzalas did not respond to TNH’s request for comment.


  1. I am appalled to say the least by the statement of the Archdiocesan chancellor.
    “The parish will report her to the police”.
    I would like to ask him,what did he do with the situation in Salt Lake City when he received a folder
    with the proof that the priests were abusing the benevolent fund??
    Did he call the police? Did he urge the parish council to do so?
    Instead,he put it under the carpet.
    He used the “αγραφο νομο”,never go against your own.
    Salt Lake is waiting your Eminence,for justice!
    Too many people talk the talk, but very few actually walk the walk…practice what you preach; Action speaks louder than words.

  2. Under the carpet is the way our Church operates. We protect the men in black and now their mistresses at all costs! This reminds me of a story I was told by a seminarian many years ago, about the same time as several of our illustrious Hierarchs were there. Their behavior was reprehensible then, and now they are the ones that administer control, or more accurately lack of control over these hypocritical followers of Ephraim. “We are one generation away from the trailer park”. You want to guess who is accelerating our descent? When you have a Hierarchy THAT REFUSES TO PROTECT AND PROCLAIM THE FAITH AGAINST FILTH WHAT SHOULD WE ALL EXPECT?

  3. As our recently canonized saint – the great Elder Paisios said: “What I see around me would drive me insane if I did not know that no matter what happens, God will have the last word!”

    It’s shameful that Archdiocese did nothing for years about Fr. Passias & his mistress and now its front page scandal.
    It could have been prevented. Sexual misconduct is not acceptable — especially from clergy. Their lives are not their own once they take those vows — millions of people leave the church because of this.

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